Given away: Sanele walks to his wedding with his mother as people look on. The ceremony shocked some people in the community.
An eight-year-old
schoolboy has married a 61-year-old woman because the ghost of his dead
ancestor told him to. Sanele
Masilela tied the knot with Helen Shabangu, who is already married and a
mother-of-five.
The boy, from Tshwane , South
Africa , said he had been told by his dead
ancestors to wed and his family, fearing divine retribution, forked out for a
wedding.
They
paid £500 for the bride and a further £1,000 for the big day, which was
organised in just two months.
Dressed in a bow tie and tiny silver suit, little Sanele, the youngest of five children, exchanged rings in front of 100 guests and even puckered up for a kiss.
It's already shocked the
community but the family has defended the ceremony, saying it was just a ritual
and not legally binding.
Sanele's 46-year-old mum, Patience Masilela said: 'This is the first time this has happened in the family.
'Sanele is named after
his grandfather, who was never had a white wedding before he died so asked
Sanele to get married. He chose Helen because he loves her.
'By
doing this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn't done what my son had asked
then something bad would have happened in the family.
'I
didn't have a problem with it because I know it's what the ancestors wanted and
it would make them happy.'
The widow, who works at a recycling centre, added: 'I would say that this is not wrong.
'Sanele was fine and he
was happy about the ceremony and it was what he wanted. He was happy to get
married and very excited.'
Sanele
and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live
together. Both have gone back to their normal lives.
Sanele
today said he hoped he would have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when
he was older.
He
added: 'I told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want
to.
'I'm happy that I married Helen - but I will go to school and study hard.
'When I'm older I will
marry a lady my own age.'
Despite
being old enough to be his grandmother, bride Helen, whose children are aged
between 37 and 27, was happy with the arrangement.
Helen,
who also works at a recycling centre, said: 'I'm married and have five kids of
my own, but I know that this is what the ancestors wanted - and now they are
happy.
'It
is a ritual. We are just playing now, but it is a sign that he will get married
one day.'
Her
husband of 30 years, Alfred, 65, said: 'My kids and I are happy.
'We
don't have problems with it but some of the community members were shocked.'
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